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This is a space to ask questions, share experiences and support each other. Find a relevant thread or start your own! Forum membership is open to anyone residing in Australia. After so much effort and love you've found out your wife has not only accepted all your efforts but strayed elsewhere. You ask if you would ever get over the pain.

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I just found out my wife cheated on me 2 years ago

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I have been with my wife since my junior year of high school in She was the first person I had ever been with I was her second. Shortly after our first time, she had cheated on me with her ex her first , and I forgave her because I thought it was my fault. Fast forward to , us being together 13 years, married, and with two amazing kids, she decides to have an affair with someone she met online and only knew for two weeks. I may not have given her enough attention, but let me explain.

We work two different shifts I work mornings. I work hard all day then I buy the groceries. I come home to cook dinner, help with homework, clean the house, do the laundry, and pay all the bills. I always tell her how beautiful she is. I always hug and kiss her and tell her how much I love her. But I never got that kind of treatment back.

So she had her affair, and it completely devastated me. I had never once been with anyone else or even allowed myself to be in that kind of situation. I stayed faithful to her all those years. For four months, I was dying on the inside, putting on a brave face for my kids and my family. I had no one to talk to. One day came I could not take it anymore; I was so depressed.

I decided I needed to meet someone new, and I did. I was so insecure about myself after what she did. Just so everyone knows I did not mislead this girl, I told her everything upfront. That I was still married, and I was not sure if I still wanted to be with my wife.

So we hung out for a few months, she was the only person that I could talk to. I also never hid her from my wife. So after three months, we had sex for the first time, and it just so happened that same day my wife asked if we had ever done it My new girl and I , and I told her yes.

She finally told me she still cared; she was mad and sad. I did decide to work things out. So now, even six years later, almost every time we have sex, I think of what she did, and pictures run through my head of what they might have done and if she enjoyed it more with him.

I think, is she thinking about him right now, does she wish I was him. I get so sick to my stomach, but I never show it. After she did what she did, I used to ask her about stuff like what they did. I just really needed someone to talk to, so I figured I would put it out here.

I can empathize with you. I was in a similar situation to yours. Only the roles were reversed. My husband cheated while our kids were still toddlers.

What has been done cannot be undone. Ask yourself these questions. How much do you actually love her? Are you a perfectionist? If you are, are you perfect? If not, can you put yourself in her shoes to feel how lonely she must be? Can either of you change your work schedule to meet at least 3 times per week? An absent marriage is a recipe for a 3rd party intrusion, it happened to mine. During this period, please try not to be negative. I believe you married young.

I suggest you pick up some books on how to have a happy marriage. Example, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Great Book. She already told you she loves you. Forgive her just this once. I have forgiven my husband. To forgive someone who hurts you takes time, love and patience. I conquered the urge to divorce him many times. I am glad I did not give up on my husband.

Now our bond is stronger. He knows what kind of woman I am. And our kids benefited too. Your wife sounds extremely selfish Tom. Very shallow, sorry. But as Jennifer said you have to try and forgive her now. Have a talk with her. Put your feelings on the table. She needs to know.

She has already crossed the line of no return. She said she wants to fix her marriage, but continues to repeat; like a bad gambling addiction. The breaking point here is the repeat. She is playing you without any regard for your feelings. It means something different to her that allows her to hurt and betray you, if she really loves you at all.

Fight for custody of your kids. You sound like a great guy. You deserve better. In a very similar situation, only her affair started three months after we married. We have now been married 41 years. I found out three months ago since she gave me a latent form of STD. I knew then something was wrong. She lied to me constantly then. Tried everything, go with her, keep her home, nothing worked. Apparently, she ended the affair after four months later, lucky she did not get pregnant.

Eventually, he and his wife and two kids moved away. We raised three great kids that never knew. I believe all are mine. Over the years she has never treated me like a husband. I did everything romantic, raised kids, worked my tail off and treated her like a queen. Now she is the one that wants us to stay together. I am so, so hurt. Have cried often. My therapist is excellent and is helping me to make my own decisions. Like above no one to talk to has made it the worse.

She will not tell me what happened and even about the sex. You must think I am the dumbest guy in the world I told her. No hugging, touching, etc. It is working. Not sure I will stay in the marriage. But I have done nothing to regret yet. Hey man, I feel for you and please know you are not alone many other men and women have been where you are and how many people never find out?

Most affairs are probably never discovered. I can tell you that it gets better with time the pain and betrayal never really goes away but you learn to manage it better the more time goes on.

Nobody wants to go through a bloody divorce, family court, child support, weekend visits, and tearing the family apart. I went through all that with my first marriage, so I respect your decision to stay.

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This is a space to ask questions, share experiences and support each other. Find a relevant thread or start your own! Forum membership is open to anyone residing in Australia. The first thing I want to say is a response to your questions - you have done nothing wrong, there is nothing wrong with you. I can understand your reaction to what happened and the feeling of being betrayed and anger.

Go to Page Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Would like an opinion from forum readers. Here's my story. I am a 50 yr old male, married for 28 years to the same woman. She is

I have been with my wife since my junior year of high school in She was the first person I had ever been with I was her second. Shortly after our first time, she had cheated on me with her ex her first , and I forgave her because I thought it was my fault. Fast forward to , us being together 13 years, married, and with two amazing kids, she decides to have an affair with someone she met online and only knew for two weeks.

Он с трудом сдержал улыбку.

- Штрафная санкция. На центральном экране прямо под извещением об ошибке ВР представила зрителям ужасающую картину. По мере того как рушилась третья защитная стенка, полдюжины черных линий, эти хакеры-мародеры, устремлялись вперед, неуклонно продвигаясь к сердцевине.

Он очутился в огромной комнате - бывшем гимнастическом зале. Бледно-зеленый пол мерцал в сиянии ламп дневного света, то попадая в фокус, то как бы проваливаясь. Лампы зловеще гудели.

У шифров-убийц обычно есть функция злопамятства - чтобы не допустить использования метода проб и ошибок. Некорректный ввод только ускорит процесс разрушения. Два некорректных ввода - и шифр навсегда захлопнется от нас на замок. Тогда всему придет конец. Директор нахмурился и повернулся к экрану.

Зато был другой голос, тот, что звал. Кто-то рядом с ним попытался его приподнять. Он потянулся к голосу. Или это его подвинули. Голос все звал его, а он безучастно смотрел на светящуюся картинку. Он видел ее на крошечном экране.

Aug 4, - My wife and I are both 30 years old and we have known each other for 11 years. I just found out the baby is not mine as the baby doctor tell us.

Падре Херрера, главный носитель чаши, с любопытством посмотрел на одну из скамей в центре, где начался непонятный переполох, но вообще-то это его мало занимало. Иногда кому-то из стариков, которых посетил Святой Дух, становилось плохо. Только и делов - вывести человека на свежий воздух. Халохот отчаянно озирался, но Беккера нигде не было .

Агент Колиандер нажал несколько кнопок, и кадры стали сменяться быстрее. Люди на подиуме с нетерпением ждали, когда на экране появится их бывший сослуживец Энсей Танкадо. Ускоренное проигрывание видеозаписи придавало изображению некоторую комичность.

На ее пальце было не кольцо Танкадо. Это было другое кольцо - платиновое, с крупным сверкающим бриллиантом. Сьюзан охнула. Дэвид посмотрел ей в глаза: - Ты выйдешь за меня замуж.

Мы просто исполнили его последнюю волю.

Сьюзан от изумления застыла с открытым ртом. Она посмотрела на часы, потом на Стратмора. - Все еще не взломан. Через пятнадцать с лишним часов. Стратмор подался вперед и повернул к Сьюзан монитор компьютера.

Я думал, что он похоронен в Доминиканской Республике. - Да нет же, черт возьми. И кто только распустил этот слух. Тело Колумба покоится здесь, в Испании.

Вы ведь, кажется, сказали, что учились в университете. Беккер пожал плечами: - Наверное, в тот день я прогулял лекцию.

То, что там происходит, серьезно, очень серьезно. Мои данные еще никогда меня не подводили и не подведут.  - Она собиралась уже положить трубку, но, вспомнив, добавила: - Да, Джабба… ты говоришь, никаких сюрпризов, так вот: Стратмор обошел систему Сквозь строй.

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